Title Ljubavni ples muškarca narcisa i žene borderlina
Title (english) Love dance of a male narcissist and a female borderline
Author Ines Kovačić
Mentor Darko Marčinko (mentor)
Committee member Milena Skočić Hanžek (predsjednik povjerenstva)
Committee member Dražen Begić (član povjerenstva)
Committee member Darko Marčinko (član povjerenstva)
Granter University of Zagreb School of Medicine (Department of Psychiatry and Psychological Medicine) Zagreb
Defense date and country 2017-07-14, Croatia
Scientific / art field, discipline and subdiscipline BIOMEDICINE AND HEALTHCARE Clinical Medical Sciences Psychiatry
Abstract Narcistični poremećaj ličnosti psihički je poremećaj karakteriziran pretjeranom samodopadnošću te vrlo dubokom željom za primanjem pažnje i divljenja. Borderline ili granični poremećaj ličnosti psihički je poremećaj karakteriziran nestabilnim emocionalnim stanjem i interpersonalnim odnosima, poremećajem identiteta, impulzivnošću, osjećajem unutarnje praznine i afektivnim promjenama raspoloženja. Kompleksan odnos osoba s narcističnim i graničnim poremećajem ličnosti može se opisati kao ljubavni ples i drama. Figurativno, ples između muškarca narcisa i žene borderline predstavlja stalnu vrtnju u začaranom krugu oko međusobnih primitivnih obrambenih mehanizama, koja nikada ne uspije dosegnuti razrješenje stvorenih konflikata. Psihoterapija ovakvoga para je zahtjevna jer traži duboko razumijevanje navedenih kompleksnih odnosa te korištene tehnike moraju biti emocionalno i kreativno provedene. Odnos s terapeutom počinje se graditi već u čekaonici prilikom prvog posjeta, a sama terapija prolazi kroz tri faze. Prva je faza jedinstva, u kojoj borderline živi u mentalnom prostoru narcisa i projicira svoje osjećaje na njega, a narcis je pak okrenut prema vlastitim stvarnim ili imaginarnim dostignućima, talentima i potrebom da mu se svi dive. Druga je faza svjesnosti dvojine, prijelazna faza, u kojoj partneri polako tijekom vremena prolaze kroz promjene u svom razmišljanju i ponašanju. Treća faza je faza svjesnosti o postojanju dva odvojena mentalna prostora. U ovoj fazi partneri shvaćaju kako su mentalno odvojene individue, no ipak povezane emocijama. Kvalitetna psihoterapija i kompetentan psihoterapeut važni su jer mogu promijeniti životnu putanja ovakvog para i izvući ga iz začaranog kruga loših emocija i odnosa.
Abstract (english) Narcissistic personality disorder is a psychiatric disorder characterised by excessive egotism and enormous desire for attention and admiration. Borderline personality disorder is a psychiatric disorder characterised by unstable emotional state and interpersonal relations, feeling of emptiness, identity disorders, impulsiveness and mood changes. Relationship complexity of two people, one with narcissistic and other with borderline personality disorder, can be described as a love dance and drama. Figuratively, a dance between a male narcissist and a female borderline represents an incessant spinning in the vicious circle around their immature defense mechanisms, which never comes to a conflict resolution. Psychotherapy of such a couple is very demanding because it needs deep understanding of these relationship complexities. Techniques used in psychotherapy have to be emotionally and creatively conducted. Bond with a therapist starts to be created in the waiting room during couple`s first visit. Therapy itself moves through three phases. The first phase is a state of oneness, where borderline lives within the mental space of the narcissist and the narcissit is turned towards his own real or imaginary accomplishments, talents and constant need to be admired. The second phase is awareness of twoness, transitional phase, in which the couple slowly experineces some changes in their thinking and behaviour. The third phase is the awareness of two emerging separate mental states. In this phase the couple realizes that they are two separate individuals, but still connected through emotions. High quality psychotherapy and a competent therapist play a very important role because they can change the life path of such a couple and get them out of a vicious circle full of bad feelings and relations.
Keywords
poremećaji ličnosti
borderline
narcis
psihodinamika
psihoterapija
Keywords (english)
personality disorders
borderline
narcissist
psychodynamics
psychotherapy
Language croatian
URN:NBN urn:nbn:hr:105:005309
Study programme Title: Medicine Study programme type: university Study level: integrated undergraduate and graduate Academic / professional title: doktor/doktorica medicine (doktor/doktorica medicine)
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Created on 2018-01-08 12:33:56