Family as a primal social community needs to provide to a child a safe and supporting environment in order for the child to develop with his needs. In cases when child is being separated from his biological family and adopted into a new family some difficulties could appear with adjustment of the child with adopting parents and also in revers. Parenting is complex and difficult process, and in newly found family the child and the adopting parent come with their former experiances and learned behaviour patterns. Thought the model of risky and protective factors we could understand the problem of the adjustment that appears and seek solution that will ease the adjustment. Surveys have shown that adopting parents lack preparation before adoption and education about difficulties with they can encounter. Dealing with the child who grow up in treathend family and in the end separated from their biological parents presents a big challenge for the future adopting parents. With the new Family law from 2015. their is an obligation of professional preparation as well as counceling during and after the adoption. Except legal obligation, support is given thought Adopta association, Na drugi način ect. But the support to adoptive parents is still not enough elaborated and satisfactory. There is a problem of cooperation with the legal institutions and education of the experts. This work is trying to show the needs of adopting parents, as well as the children, and the possibilities legislation gives them. At the end of the paper is the list of guide lines and measures that can be used in further creation of the measurements and politics for giving support to adoptive families.