We can learn a lot about upbringing and relationship towards children through variety of books, guidebooks, magazines and Internet articles available in large quantities. They are used by future parents before child is born and during its growing up period. The same rule applies to the pre-school teachers during their faculty education which is changed and upgraded during their work time. In that way the curriculum and their knowledge of child upbringing are also updated. But there is very little we can learn about the relationship between the educator and the parents. Due to the fast paced and stressful lives of parents and their obligations related to work and home they spend little time in the kindergarten and are always in a rush to carry on their daily tasks. The pre-school educators are under pressure during the whole conversation with a parent because they cannot direct their full attention due to other 20 children behind their back that they have to keep under a watchful eye. Because of these pressures, the relationship between a parent and an educator is only based on a superficial conversation. Due to the nonverbal body language that says they have other things to do, the conversation is finished and classified as a waste of precious time. In those situations the parents and educators get their first impression about each other and automatically base their attitude during the next conversation. And even if there are possible upbringing problems they have to resolve, the conflicts occur because both sides want what is best for a child. Parents often don't accept easily that they or their child has a problem because they think they know their child best and think they are raising it in the best possible way. An educator is a person who learned about and has came across the problems in a child's development but hasn't learned how to approach the parent in the right way and report that both sides need to try to solve the current problem and put the child's upbringing at the first place of their priorities. Comparison of literature will explore successful communication methods and best possible ways of solving conflicts.